Can a man be made to do anything by thrashing, criticising, booing or just ignoring? I think, if someone believes in this, he is more than dishonest.
When you have a kid, you love it. Don’t you? We water a plant in the hope that a beautiful flower will smile for us some day. But what happens, when it comes to building men for the future? What happens to that father or mother in you, who claims to be the builder, the creator? Where goes that lover inside, when someone looks with hope towards you?
I sincerely believe, if things can be built, it can be built but through patience, perseverance, determination and love. With praise, you don’t bring satisfaction for others but the desire to get praised, again and again. With criticism you don’t gain, but make others lose, which is never intended.
All Great things in this world are dependent upon great relationships. Be it friendship, or institution building, relationship has to be at the core of all these processes.
We love dogs, and train them? Again,all by love. We can’t get anything out of them by whipping. We love ourselves and keep looking for good thing in us. That way we try maintaining our strengths and reduce our weaknesses.
It’s very easy to look for weaknesses. You can always find one. The toughest and therefore the most difficult thing is to praise, to appreciate, to encourage, to promise, ‘I am with you’.
Are you with me?
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I appreciate your effort to say what you feel